What you need to know is that
Not everyone in your path is necessarily working against you, it takes time to see who's on your side and who's not...
Being around others as an empath can be difficult, you are by definition sensitive and caring, nothing wrong with that but the fact is that because you're able to tune into other people's feelings this can make you vulnerable when it comes to attracting the attention of people who hook you in with sob stories that cloud your judgment, they tell you what you want to hear and when you try and come away from them they throw you a crumb and your right back where you started.
Wouldn't it be nice to solve this problem so you gain better connections - why not start by looking at the following phrases to see if any of them resonate with you?
* You frequently develop crushes
* You spend time thinking about people you want to be with to the detriment of not getting
on with other things in your life
* When you are involved you like the intense feelings you experience to the point of it feeling
* Your mind runs away with you when you connect to certain people ie: you imagine being in a serious relationship with them, even marrying them without even knowing them that well
* You tend to hold onto connections or relationship that are unsuitable or that are unlikely
to go anywhere but don't realize it at the time
* When you feel emotionally disconnected you look for ways to connect to others who evoke
intense feelings which can sometimes put you in a risky position
* Even when you come out of a connection that wasn't right you dwell on it wondering what you could have done differently and find it hard to recover
Now you may notice that the above lean towards intimate relationships the reason is that some empaths have great skills in business but struggle because of their emotions but this may not necessarily be the case in every situation as empaths can find that other connections bring problems as they tend to give much of their time and energy to stay connected so it could be that a friendship, family connection or work situation may need attention.
We understand that you will resist the reasons why you act the way you do, even find it puzzling but if you're finding that you're not getting the results you want then change is inevitable and once you start to connect with people that allow you to live life on your terms then you'll no longer want the worry and anguish that intense connections bring you and this will help you deal with conflict in all aspects of your life so that you can achieve what you want.
So what can you do right now for free - start your assertiveness journey by signing up for our online course if you're struggling to control yourself in situations - click the button below to sign up
I've always watched movies as they've helped me feel less alone but it wasn't until I found out that I was an empath that it became clear why I was drawn to certain characters. It was at this point that I realized why my experiences specifically when it came to intimate relationships had caused me discomfort and at my lowest point the loss of my identity and self-esteem. It was my own determination to recover that led me to use the movies further to build my self-worth, resilience, and eventually the ability to assert myself. Don't get me wrong I'll always be a work in progress around some people but I'm better equipped when it comes to dealing with them because I feel like I've cracked a secret code as rather than letting my emotions take over I'm able to clearly see what I need to do to protect myself.
Why work with me?
If you decide to work with me then I can tell you that I'm supportive but you have to be willing to be open to change which isn't easy but once you start to see yourself differently this will have an effect on how others see you and it's this experience alone that will set you free from the barriers that stop you from achieving your goals.
I'm a qualified movie therapist, mentor, and life coach who'll give you the tools you need to succeed so you overcome the barriers that you and others put in your way. I've worked with a diverse range of people in the lead up to specializing in relationships by helping them use movies as a vehicle towards increasing their self-esteem through the support I received from organizations such as Wirral Mind and The School for Social Entrepreneurs where I graduated from as a fellow on the Innovators for Health program.
What others say...
"I would recommend Lynn as a supportive and skilled life coach with an empathetic approach which has enabled to develop the capacity to find solutions to issues" NM - London
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"It inspired me and I came away feeling confident, optimistic and determined to achieve more things in my life" SH - Wirral